If you’re taking care of an elderly loved one or are concerned about your own memory as you age, it’s good to be aware of the early signs of age-related conditions like dementia and Alzheimer’s.
We all have moments when we forget why we walked into a room, but if someone frequently forgets what they’re doing or struggles to remember the time or day, this might be a warning sign. If they also start forgetting things they have always remembered easily, such as familiar names, it could be concerning.
Another red flag is when someone starts having trouble with simple tasks, like writing a list, following game rules they know well, or performing routine tasks on a computer, like sending an email. A noticeable lack of concentration during these activities can indicate memory issues. If you observe these symptoms, consider looking into memory care options in your area.
Changes in personality might be more visible to others than to the person affected. Individuals with dementia or Alzheimer’s may become more withdrawn or less sociable due to confusion and a loss of confidence. They might also become more aggressive or defensive from frustration, and experience mood swings based on their memory capabilities on any given day.
Holding a conversation can become challenging for someone showing signs of dementia. They might lose track of the discussion, repeat themselves, or ask questions that have already been answered. They could also face difficulties with vocabulary, forgetting words for common items, and substituting them with vague terms like “thingamajig.” These issues may not occur all the time, as early stages can include both good and bad days, but this suggests that memory care might be beneficial.
Dementia or Alzheimer’s can significantly impact family routines, making constant supervision necessary to prevent safety risks like wandering, slipping, or falling due to disorientation. Ensuring your loved one’s comfort and safety involves installing bed railings, stair guards, and mobility aids, as well as providing non-slip floors and well-lit spaces, especially in frequently visited areas like the bathroom.
Caregivers need to have a lot of patience and understanding. Caring for someone with conditions like dementia and Alzheimer’s can be demanding. It’s important to equip yourself with the right knowledge to provide the best care.
Reassure your loved one that you’re there for them. Remove stressors, including topics that might trigger anxiety or anger. Using labels on rooms and objects, and keeping calendars or recent newspapers handy, can help reduce confusion and disorientation.
Dementia and Alzheimer’s symptoms and progression vary greatly from one person to another. If you notice these signs, it might be a good time to seek professional help. In more advanced cases, considering an assisted living setting that offers memory care might be appropriate.
